selective insanity

I made an oath a couple months ago.... to never go to great clips ever again. well specifically the one by my house. it is literally one block away. But the thing is that i am so cheap that spending 25 or 30 dollars on a good hair cut seems nuts to me, even if i am much happier with it than the cheap salons. So i am always going back and forth.

so today i am desperate for a quick fix and what do i get in the mail..... a coupon for great clips for a 6.99 hair cut. now honestly their haircuts arent worth a penny more so i certainly wouldnt have gone there this time if it werent for that coupon. so i brace myself and prepare for the worst. i walk in and there are 3 ladies working... two of them are asians and i recognize one of them as being the one who butchered me last time and could not understand one word of english. so i will let you guess who called my name.... yep the lady who doesnt speak english. ok now first of all, how can you be a stylist if you cant understand what people are saying? it really is mind boggling that she has that job. and of course i have nothing against foreigners at all! but when i am paying for something i expect to be able to communicate with them. anyways, so my mind is going crazy thinking that i should let someone else go ahead of me and take the next stylist, but then i didnt want to look snobby or something and hurt her feelings.... but then again it is my hair and if i am not going to leave happy then i am just going to leave now..... or maybe i will just explain it really well to her and everything will be fine.....Gwen badhair.jpg

so i start to tell her what i want and she looked at me funny, kinda confused and stuttered... then she looked at the stylist next to her and she briefly explained what i was saying... but not very well either. so i kept gesturing how i wanted it to look hoping that was a language she understood, and she seemed to understand. but when she started cutting i could tell it wasnt going to look like i wanted. but i thought ya know, i have had so many hair cuts that have been terrible that one more wont kill me, i really just want it off my neck anyways, so whatever... but then i got annoyed at myself thinking, why would i even let her cut my hair at all... that is silly. i should have waited for someone who was more experienced. furthermore i should have just paid the extra money and gone somewhere nice.

why do i keep doing this to myself???? i know it is just hair, but it seems a little insane to keep going back if i am always unhappy! the definition of insanity is "doing something over and over again expecting different results"

nessie on Apr 26, 2007 2:29pm

I can't believe you told that whole story and didn't post a picture. I am dying to see your new hair cut!!! ...and I completely relate to you...why do we do that to ourselves! :-)...because the Bible wasn't kidding when it calls us sheep! baaaa baaaa

Anonymous on Apr 26, 2007 2:29pm

oh my gosh buddy! What were you thinking! I never go to those places anymore. I just cant risk getting a terrible hair cut.

nessie on Apr 26, 2007 2:29pm

Hmmm...it's not the greatest haircut I've seen you have...and being that's it's not at all what you wanted but got anyway, I can understand your desire to put your hair dresser on the first boat back home...but to me you are still and always lovely!

Robin on Apr 26, 2007 2:29pm

I like your hair longer...I don't think I know what it looks like when it is cute just the way you like it in short style, but you are cute either way?! How are you feeling by the way? You are now 36 weeks, right? I am just now 35. Any more contractions?

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